So I used this oil on someone I have been sleeping and hanging out with for some time. We acted like we were dating , just without the title. Ikr. Wtf. Anyway, I thought this would give him an push into the right direction but I think I pushed too hard. Idk. He started showing signs more of commitment in his actions but still hasn't said anything. He gave me the key to his parking garage , which is huge if you know the situation, but I think overall it worked. I think I should have played things more cool ...I'm a little impatient so. I think to a man who doesnt have a mind to commit it might seem smothering or he might get a little scared and become distant. I would say I recommend this but have faith, patience, and give them space lol ....btw, I would literally rub this on his sleeping mask, pillow, clothes, toothbrush, literally anything if I thought he used often when he invited me over. Maybe overkill for me lmaoooo